It’s the deepest act of humility that’s required of us to have total grace

Forgiveness is for me, one of the foundational Christian teachings, reflecting the very heart of God. It is often misconceived as a sign of weakness, yet it holds power and significance in the life of a believer. Jesus Christ emphasized the importance of forgiveness in His teachings, particularly in the Lord's Prayer, as recorded in Matthew 6:12 and Luke 11:4. These verses illustrate that seeking God's forgiveness is linked with our forgiving of others 

Matthew 6:12 (NKJV) states, "And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors." This passage of scripture indicates that our own forgiveness from God is conditional upon our willingness to forgive those who have wronged us. Matthew 6:15 further reinforces this by stating, "But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Similarly, Luke 11:4 (NKJV) reads, "And forgive us our sins, for we also forgive everyone who is indebted to us." These verses collectively highlight that forgiving others is a prerequisite for receiving God's forgiveness.

The concept of forgiveness is not a suggestion but a command from Jesus, who Himself set the ultimate example of forgiveness. While suffering on the cross, He prayed, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do" (Luke 23:34, NKJV). Despite being falsely accused, rejected by His own, mocked, and tortured, Jesus chose to forgive His persecutors.

Forgiving others can be incredibly difficult, especially when we have experienced deep wounds or significant losses at the hands of others. Some people have lost loved ones due to the actions of others, some have experienced being violated, or suffered from the neglect or absence of parent. These experiences can leave deep scars, making forgiveness seem almost impossible. Yet, Jesus' teachings make it clear that forgiveness is essential for our spiritual well-being. By forgiving, we release the burden of resentment and allow God's blessings to flow into our lives.

Forgiveness is an act of obedience to God (1Samuel 15:22 teaches that obedience is better than sacrifice), but it also serves as a means of personal liberation. When we hold onto bitterness and unforgiveness, we are the ones who suffer the most. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus highlights this: "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." This passage of scripture clearly tells us that our willingness to forgive others directly impacts our relationship with God and His forgiveness towards us. Forgiveness is not optional for those who seek to live in accordance with God's will; it is a fundamental aspect of Christian living.  As often as you ask the Lord for forgiveness, that is often you should forgive.

Moreover, forgiveness is not about absolving others of their wrongs; it is about aligning our hearts with God's heart. God is merciful and compassionate, and abounding in love. When we forgive, we reflect these divine attributes and draw closer to Him. Jesus' teachings on forgiveness are not theoretical; they are deeply practical and relevant to our daily lives. In the Lord's Prayer, Jesus models how we should pray and live. By asking God to "forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors," we acknowledge our own need for God's mercy and commit to extending that same mercy to others.

As followers of Christ, we are called to embody His teachings on forgiveness. This means letting go of grudges, releasing those who have hurt us from the debt of their offenses, and seeking reconciliation whenever possible. It also means recognizing that forgiveness is a journey, not a one-time thing. We may need to forgive repeatedly, yet, with each act of forgiveness, we grow in grace and become more like Christ.

Lastly, forgiveness is a vital part of the Christian life. It is a reflection of God's heart and a command from Jesus. By forgiving others, we unlock the heart of God toward us and ensure that we receive the forgiveness we seek from Him. As we strive to live a life of forgiveness, we participate in the redemptive work of God and experience the fullness of His love and mercy.