Podcast Episode 78: Kristin Pollock On Raising the Bar in Modern Dating

Why you have to be as innocent as a dove, yet shrewd as a serpent in courting in 2025


In this engaging conversation 78, Ally and Kitty discuss the challenges of dating in 2025, emphasizing how the bar has been set low due to societal changes, particularly the influence of social media. They explore themes of selfishness, the importance of accountability, and the necessity of establishing boundaries in relationships. The discussion also highlights the significance of self-reflection and personal growth in navigating modern love, ultimately advocating for a more mindful approach to dating and relationships.

Kitty is a Miami-born and based PR strategist, consultant, and former model- and Curator at emerging the MJGPR firm. Of Peruvian and Russian dissent, she’s a supporter of art, culture and decency. She recently moved back to “The Magic City” after living abroad, and she’s looking forward to the emerging growth of the city. 

In this episode, Kitty and Ally discuss:

  • How the bar for dating has been set low due to societal changes.

  • How people often seek validation rather than genuine connection.

  • Evolving as individuals is necessary for successful partnerships.

  • Guarding your heart is important in the dating landscape.

  • How selfishness is a major factor in modern relationships.

Ally Portee

Starting out in the world of politics, Ally interned and worked in Washington, DC, in Congress, at The White House, and on political campaigns. Today she’s in a totally different arena: fashion. Developing an eye for sartorial craftsmanship, Ally has learned how to put intricate and detailed collections into words, while developing relationships with some of the world's most leading brands and covering Paris, Milan, and Riyadh Fashion Week shows. Ally started SEELE in 2012. Seele [ze-le] is the German word for Soul and its aim is to encourage people with faith-inspired and lifestyle content that stir the soul. Ally has written for Forbes, Harper’s Bazaar, The Hollywood Reporter, GQ Middle East, Vogue Arabia, Refinery29, NPR, Arabian Business, and Euronews.

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