A chat with KB Chakela on the purpose of marriage and the flags girls should be looking out for when dating

Singleness and dating are also aspects of the Christian life that need attention, says SEELE contributor KB Chakela.

"During the month of Valentines, many single believers who are patiently waiting on the Lord for their spouse are conflicted about the wait," says SEELE contributor Keabetswe Chakela. She reminds to not date just to date, but to pray and wait on God for the Kingdom spouse He has for His children.

You know how sometimes in life we can get involved in something or with someone that we know we shouldn’t be getting involved with? Often the things we get involved in are over before we even know it. We may not know it early on, or may not want to see “it” for what “it” really is, but others can see that the “it” in our lives is over before we see it.

Seele contributor, Rebekah Mazzei sheds light on the fact that not conforming to this world, but being an inhabitant of it, we have an advantage to break the mold of what is normal thinking and to truly act set apart from the rest.

It’s a lot of work to raise a child, but a real man will lead his family and raise the seeds he has planted. And, a real woman will lead her home and raise the seeds that have been planted inside of her. 

In this 21st century day and age the male and female relationship is different than it was generations ago.