Book: Sexless In The City

Navigating singleness as a woman of faith can be a struggle fest, but it doesn't have to be. In Sexless in the City, podcaster, founder of The Refined Woman, and Texan turned New Yorker Kat Harris shares her messy, honest, and unlikely journey to discovering God's heart for singleness, sexuality, desire, and our purpose within it all.

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‘Your Marriage Is Your Inheritance,’ says the Lord

With her poetic language, SEELE contributor Oboitshepo Tladi continues our theme of: “having a marriage character before marriage.” Marriage is a ministry, a calling to shine the light of Jesus to your partner and to those around you. It’s also an inheritance, a blessing, and a walking into new territory of richness from the Lord, to receive all that He has for you and your spouse.

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Having A Marriage Character Before Marriage: Kindness

Continuing our theme of: “having a marriage character before marriage,” we see that there are things we can get sorted in our singleness before marriage. If kindness is one of the things that men notice in women, then it would behoove single women to be kind before marriage, to be kind to friends, coworkers, family, and strangers.

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Having A Marriage Character Before Marriage: 9 Fruit

In order to have a fulfilling life, the most important decision that any one of us can make is to choose to follow Jesus, and the second most important decision we can ever make in life is who we choose to marry. Continuing our theme of: having a marriage character before marriage, we see and need to understand that it’s imperative to let our triune God work on our issues and our character so that we can be a good husband- or a good wife.

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Having A Marriage Character Before Marriage: Vows


The month of May is a focus on marriage and what it means from a Biblical standpoint. Last year the theme was “God’s purpose for marriage,” focusing on being in the act of marriage. This year, I want to focus the Friday Posts on having a marriage character before marriage, more specifically, what it means to be a wife or husband before you are a wife and husband. In order to have a thing, we must be the thing before it is truly manifested in our lives.

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Pandemic Style Lessons: The Marriage Of COVID-19 And Fashion

SEELE contributor Shefali Karani shares how fashion has changed immensely, especially as the pandemic has changed- "we wore sweatpants or PJs at home or casual clothing," she stated, "and we started dressing up when virtual events took place, and now we started dressing up even when there was no reason to do so," she points out the tricky relation between fashion and the pandemic- an unexpected marriage.

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